Need your help everyone to tell me if im gay?

hey everyone im a 13 year old boy and at my all boys school we had a sports event and at the end everyone had to go get changed and go home so everyone ran in then the teachers stopped us all for like 5 minutes so we were all just squished together in the entrance and a boy in front of me who i know also 13 felt my hand on his rear because i was pushed forward i think he got the wrong idea and he grabbed my hand and put it down the front of his trousers and i could feel a little ***** hes like 5ft tall so hes not that big and then i pulled it out but then everyone went home and both of us had a detention for something before so we both had to do another hour of running after that we had to go get shower and changed and everyone had gone home so he went in first i went in like 5 minutes later and he was in there with only a towel around him i was getting changed and then he walked up to me and just dropped his towel and he was completely naked he didn't have any hair down there or anything but he asked me to put into my mouth but i didn't but the next day in music i was sitting next to him and he whispered to me to touch it and i did i put my hand down his boxers and made him *** but a few days later he asked me to sleepover and i think to sleep together i said no so am i gay or was it just a moment of weakness